SUPERSEX by Tracey Cox

This is a fun book with loads of visuals and great new ideas. If your sex life could use a jumpstart, or if you just like to keep things fresh and interesting, this is definitely worth a look. I hate sounding like an infomercial or anything, but when I find something I like I have the urge to share the wealth. Even if you're such a sex godess that you need no further inspiration, the pics are at least fun to look at:) I've included a sneak peek to give you an idea of what you're in for:



Stunning erotic photography and wickedly irreverent sexual treats - definitely NOT for the faint-hearted. The lick, stroke and nibble guide to touching naked flesh, show-off sex positions, what to do when your bits don’t fit and why being bad makes you very, very good in bed. Need the kiss of life for a near-dead relationship? Searching for someone to have supersex with? Simply want some new ideas? Take yourself on a warm, sexy romp through all aspects of modern sexuality.

SURE THING SEX POSITIONS

Sit-down Sex

How to do it:

He lies on his back and gets into the old ‘bicycle’ exercise position (resting on his shoulders, hips and bottom in the air, weight resting on his elbows and hands holding hips high). You stand and face away from him and lower yourself on his penis by sitting down on his bottom. His feet rest against your back, you rest your fingers on the back of his thighs for balance. There, now I’ve made it sound terribly easy, I’ll let you in on the secret: it’s sooooo not. In fact, I claim it’s near impossible because his penis needs to be bent back and through his legs. My sex therapist friends who convinced me to include say while it isn’t terribly comfortable (and in fact, can only be accomplished when he’s semi-erect) it’s well worth it simply because the Show-Off Factor is 10/10. This is the sort of position people use at swinger’s clubs. The rest of us stick to giving clothed demonstrations to wow our friends when completely sozzled at dinner parties.

Why you’ll love it:

He might not love it but you will. Why? You’re in the driver’s seat – literally - so can custom-order your orgasm by controlling the depth of penetration and speed of thrusting. There’s no eye contact so both of you are free to fantasise about anyone and anything you like (without feeling guilty when opening one eye to see your partner gazing lovingly into yours). The rear-entry position is wonderfully primitive and an excellent chance to show off just how toned your ‘love muscle’ is after all those workouts you’ve been doing (see The Gym Workout for Your Genitals). Try moving in small circles as you lift your pelvis up and down. Just as you’re both ready to orgasm, bear down and clench the PC muscle so you’re gripping him ultra-tight.

The Hook

How to do it:

You’re lying on your back, he’s on top. Hook your legs up over his shoulders for deeper penetration and to give him complete control.

Why you’ll love it:

If he’s not terribly well endowed, it’s a good position for maximum deep penetration. A tip to remember for this and other positions: crossing your ankles (behind his neck here) helps tighten the vaginal canal. It’s a great way to squeeze him in and make him feel fuller inside you. The scrotum brush against your buttocks with each stroke. You can reach forward to stroke or cup his testicles, he can do wonderful things to your breasts with your hands. The blood has rushed to extremities like your nipples, which makes them extremely sensitive.

The Slide

How to do it:

He kneels on a hard surface, keeping his back straight, in praying position. You lie in front of him, genitals facing him. He then lifts your legs up to his shoulders, so your weight is supported on your shoulders. Holding his erection downward, he penetrates. He holds you into position by wrapping his arms around your upper thighs. Your weight is supported by your shoulders and arms.

Why you’ll love it:

This works because it’s a position where he penetrates shallowly. And – Gosh! How terribly sensitive is Mother Nature! All of the nerve endings – or sensory perceptors – in the vagina are located only at the mouth - within an inch or so of the vaginal entrance. This is actually designed to prevent pain. If women had nerve endings throughout the vagina, the pain of childbirth would be even more excruciating! Also another reason why the length of the penis is not at all important to pleasurable sex. Let me repeat this for any men who might be sneaking a quick peek into this section, just so you feel totally reassured: it really is true! The first third of the vagina is the most highly sensitive. Which is the prime reason why this position works: he’s focusing on your super-sensitive nerve endings with what also happens to be his most sensitive part, the head of the penis.

The Swivel

How to do it:

You’re on top, then through a series of moves, turn around while he’s still inside you and end up facing the opposite way. So start by riding him, rodeo style. Then, using your hands to steady yourself, lift one leg over your body and begin to turn sideways. Carry on rotating, stopping at intervals for a few thrusts, until you’re facing away from him.

Why you’ll love it:

He gets a unique ‘corkscrew’ feeling on his penis while you turn around, while simultaneously being treated to a revolving-restaurant-type view of your body. His erection points out instead of up, which is an instant arousal upper. You can vary the thrusting to make things even more interesting. Grind into him slowly, then suddenly speed up. Let him go deep, then tease by lifting yourself up and away so he’s penetrating shallowly. Squeeze those pelvic floor muscles while he makes small rotations with his penis. The angle of your vagina changes when you have your back to him. Not only are you in complete control of the speed and rhythm in this position, it gives him a direct shot at your G-spot. Activate a G-spot orgasm by arching your back as far as you can and widening your legs so his penis has perfect access to your orgasm trigger. If he’s hitting the right spot and continues to thrust, the first reaction you’ll have may well be a need to pee. This is because the G-spot is near the urethra (which urine passes through). Hang on (in all senses) and the sensation will pass and turn into an orgasmic wave which washes over you. Your hands are also free to stimulate his testicles and perineum (the smooth area between testicles and his anus). Meanwhile, he can stroke your back, bottom and lower tummy. You get to set the pace and rhythm, to regulate the depth of penetration and to generally be the dominant one. It’s also a great position to give yourself a helping hand at crucial points because it’s easy to reach down and stimulate your clitoris.

Vibrators or Dildos?

My first sex toy was a pocket rocket. Used for clitoral stimulation only, I wasn't expecting mind-blowing orgasms. I figured it would be a bit like playing with myself the old-fashioned way, but with less effort. As I rotated the tiny shaft to start the show, I was shocked by the waves of pleasure that shot through my body when those vibrating knobs touched my clit. I came - hard- within about a minute and a half. Based on this (and many, MANY other encounters with my pocket rocket) I assumed that when it came to sex toys, vibrating was the way to go.

I was a little disappointed, however, when I bought my first vibrator. It was about the size of a nice-sized cock (I was a little intimidated by the ones that were about as big as my arm), it was water-proof so as to be useful in bubble baths, it was made of that sort of plastic substance that they used to make "jellie shoes" out of in the eighties, and, of course, it vibrated. Even had three speeds, some ribs near the top and a curved tip to hit that G-spot. When I got it home, it did the trick after lots of maneuvering, but it was almost too flexible. In order to convey all those good vibrations throughout the length of the shaft, the material had to be somewhat pliable. If you really think about it, though, which do you think would make you cum harder: a semi-hard quivering dick, or a rock solid cock beatin' the brakes off that pussy? Also, unlike the pocket rocket which is vibrating on the surface of your clit, the vibrator is all the way up inside and the vibrations are very much muffled by the muscles which are contracting all around it. I tried just shoving the vibrator harder and harder, but it was more than the poor thing could handle. I broke off the curvy tip. Ripped apart like a giant stick of blue plastic bologna.

Determined not to give up in my quest for new and improved sources of sexual pleasure, I opted the next time for a solid glass dildo. Let me just say, it was a wise investment:) The glass is curved so it gets right to the G-spot (and solid so you get a good firm thrust). There is a little ball at the end to grip onto when you're in the throes of ecstasy and things get slippery. It's also waterproof, dishwasher safe and cool to look at. You can even warm up your dildo by putting it in hot water for awile, or stick it in the freezer for that popsicle feeling without the mess! On a more serious note, the plastic materials used in a lot of sex toys are prone to tiny tears and nicks, which can be very difficult to clean properly and can cause infection. Since glass is a non-porous surface, no worries about cooties! For occassions when you want a little vibration in your play sessions, you can use a dildo either in your pussy or anally, and use a pocket rocket at the same time.

They also make vibrators with the little vibrating bunnies or butterflies on the outside for your clit, but in my opinion, the glass dildo (or diamond if she's lucky enough!) is a girl's best friend.

ABC News Makes Bold Claims about Porn

I recently came across an online article ABC World News, which spouts the same typical bullshit about how porn is evil and it's destroying families and relationships. I just have to take a few moments to rant about this because it drives me insane when mainstream media panders to the self-righteous, hypocritical "moral majority" which feels it is its duty to impose its morality on the world.

The article talks about young boys who snuck a peek at their parents' porn, and later, as college students, had access to unlimited online porn without even having to sneak around. This exposure to sex, according to ABC News, will "spoil" their future sex lives. "Exposure to porn can make young men less inhibited sexually, because they've seen it all." GOD FORBID YOUNG PEOPLE NOT BE INHIBITED BY THE SAME KIND OF FEAR AND SECRECY WHICH HAS SURROUNDED SEX FOR CENTURIES!!! The article then contradicts itself by claiming that porn can also make boys MORE inhibited because they don't understand that "real" girls aren't like the ones in the porn flicks and they don't know how to deal with this in a real relationship. Should these youngsters also be shielded from watching any movies or television shows, playing video games, reading comic books? How much of the information they receive from non-pornographic sources is realistic?

ABC's source even went so far as to say that young men exposed to porn become desensitized to sex altogether. "After looking at hours of Internet porn, sex is no longer exciting, or titillating. For these young men, who grow up watching these images and seeing them as ideal, they are disappointed by real women and real experiences." ARE THEY FUCKING KIDDING ME??? How many young guys do you know who, after watching lots of porn, turn down REAL pussy because it's just not the same as looking at it on the internet and jerking off in your room!

The topic then turns to girls and how watching porn "demystifies" sex for girls. They say it like it's a bad thing that girls actually know what sex is. As if they should be virgins until their wedding night and scared to death the first time they see a dick, or worse yet, find out what he wants to do with it!

The article does, for a brief moment, suggest something logical which would actually solve this "problem." They say that parents should monitor what their kids are watching, and if the kids do see some porn, use it as an opportunity to start a healty dialogue about sex. YOU MEAN ACTUALLY BE A PARENT? DON'T EXPECT YOUR CHILD TO LEARN EVERYTHING ABOUT LIFE FROM THE IMAGES THEY SEE ON TV OR THE INTERNET?

Well, that was enough rational thought for ABC NEWS. The article then goes on to say that adults are more likely to cheat online without considering it cheating, and that this should be blamed on porn. They also talked to a man who has committment issues, which they attribute to the fact that he looked at daddy's playboy when he was 12.

What I found mildly ironic, was that ABC also published an article right around the same time which discusses an extensive survey on Americans' attitudes about sex. One of the study's "key findings" was that sex is important (who knew?) and "an exciting sex life contributes to sexual satisfaction, which in turn contributes to a satisfying marriage." The study found that 55% of Americans describe themselves as sexually "traditional," and that of those 55%, 29% say they would like to be more adventurous. Of those who say their partner is "traditional," 41% say they wish their partner would loosen up and live on the wild side a little.

If great sex is key to a satisfying marriage, maybe the divorce rate wouldn't be so high if people weren't so uptight about sex. Maybe "family values" should include placing value on people's natural sexual needs and stop trying to repress them by claiming that anything sexual, specifically porn, is dirty and nasty and evil. Not everyone has to like porn, but plenty of people do. It's a form of entertainment. If you don't like it, don't watch it. BUT STOP TRYING TO RUIN IT FOR THE REST OF US!!!

!!! CLICK ME HARDER, BABY!!!

Montreal Fetish Weekend - Sep. 1-3, 2006

Coming up in Montreal is their Fetish Weekend 2006. If you like kink, you better get in line now for tickets. I don't imagine it will take long for this to sell out. The weekend kicks off with "Cabaret Kink." It's a party where the ambiance is retro Paris red light district, and the dress code is leather, latex, PVC, glam, drag, corsets, lingerie, exotic shoes & boots, chain mail, body armour, anything pervy, twisted and sexy! Saturday is the Latextacy Fantasy Fashion Fetish Ball, and Sunday is the Grand Finale "Night Of Masks." Basically people are invited to wear disguises, bring their favorite toys and play in their "specially equipped and themed" BDSM play rooms. You can book a private suite and party all night.

Sounds like it's going to be a giant three-day orgy. So now we know how those Canadians stay warm during those cold winters way up north. They'd like you to think they're all out playing hockey, eh? Well, it would appear that some of them are working up a sweat in their latex lingerie, whipping those hockey players into orgasmic submission.

One of my new Porn Favs

I watch a wide variety of porn, but I have to say that, like anyone, I have my favorites. Maybe it's because I've lived in several Spanish-speaking countries and this particular genre reminds me of crazy nights on the Mexican Riviera or hot Latin lovers I've had in the past, but I have a thing for Latin Porn. One I particularly enjoyed was Bang Bros. "Latin Ass Palooza Vol. 1." My favorite scenes were the ones where they spoke Spanish. Everything just sounds sexier in Spanish (or Italian, although there doesn't seem to be as much Italian porn out there). Plus, who can resist watching those Latin girls with their big tits and round, J-Lo asses. I'm not much of a film critic, but the following gives you an idea of what you're in for (not my words, but it sums up the flick nicely without giving too much away, so I've included it in my shout-out to another great Bang Bros. production):

There are plenty of friendly interactions here, most in English, although some in Spanish, and everyone seems to have a dandy time before and after their clothes come off. Marisol giggles when her ass is complimented, Michelle is good naturedly shocked by the size of the cock she works with, Debbie makes it clear she doesn't like to be spanked, Solique looks pretty reclining with cum on her face, and Sabrina looks especially lovely while kneeling to give head.

First Annual Berlin Porn Film Festival!

This is why I love Europe! Europeans are SO much less inhibited about sexuality. From their many clothing optional beaches and parks, to the lack of censorship of sexual material on regular network television, Europeans simply don't have as many hangups about sex as our Puritanic American culture. As a proof of this theory, the largest city in Europe is throwing an international porn extravaganza!
Amateur and professional filmmakers alike can submit their works for consideration to receive international recognition. It's like Cannes for pornographers! There will also be gallery exhibitions, a "Post Porn Politics Symposium," lectures, discussions, and of course plenty of parties! The city will host workshops on subjects such as Japanese Bondage, Role playing, and French Kissing. There will even be porn Karaoke. Fans of the show "Mystery Science Theater 3000" will be familiar with the concept: Porn films will play on a big screen with no sound. Participants will be given a microphone and asked to provide all sound effects, dialogue, etc., for the film. Performances will be judged by a panel of "sex addicts." To hell with Oktoberfest this year. Berlin has plenty of beer, and this October the hottest destination in Germany will be this celebration of all things sexual. For more info, check out the official website.

Office Sex Fantasy Come True

In my blog, you will find my opinions and comments on various articles, new porn flicks, erotica, and miscellaneous things that catch my fancy. But let's face it, this blog was created to talk about sex, so it's only fitting that I occassionally add some of my own personal contributions. With that in mind, here goes:

I had always fantasized about having office sex, but never thought I'd have the guts. My boyfriend has been asking for awhile, but I was always scared of getting fired. We always send each other dirty text messages from work as sort of a tease until we see each other. I work in a small office with just myself and my boss, so when she's not there I sneak a pic of my tits or my pussy, etc, with the camera phone and send it to him.
One day when my boyfriend knew that my boss would be out of the office for the afternoon, he stopped by my office unexpectedly. My pussy was already wet from the nasty text messages he had been sending, so it didn't take much convincing when he told me he wanted to climb under my desk (where he couldn't be seen by any clients who happened to stop in) and eat my pussy until I came right there at my desk!
I was wearing a skirt (which he knew of course since I had pulled it up and sent him a pic earlier that day). I slid the skirt up my thighs and sat on the edge of my chair with him underneath my desk. At first just feeling his breath on my thighs, his tongue lightly brush my clit, was almost enough to make me cum. But he wasn't about to let this be a quickie and I wanted it to last, too.
Then, the phone rang. As I answered the phone, it was all I could do to keep my voice steady and answer with the correct name of the firm. It was a client who had some concerns. I bit my lip, letting out an occassional "mmm,hmmm" every once in a while to imply that I was listening to him, and all the while my boyfriend's tongue was pulsating on my clit and then lightly thrusting into my pussy. My legs were wrapped around his neck and my free hand was clutching the arm of my chair.
I answered three more phone calls like that until I couldn't take it any more---I wanted that cock! I locked the door to my office and sent the phones to voicemail. Just to keep it exciting, though, we left the blinds open. The office across the street was about to get a show.
I pushed everything off of my desk (part of that fantasy, I couldn't resist!), then I bent over the desk with my ass toward him. His dick was rock hard as he slammed it in me all the way to the hilt. I let out a soft gasp as he pulled back and began to tease me by just putting the head of his dick inside me a few times before going at it fast and furious. My pussy was dripping wet I was so turned on.
Then he flipped me over on my back with my legs up in the air. I was still wearing everything but my panties. My skirt was around my waist and my blouse was unbuttoned the whole way down. My right hand slid down to rub my clit as he was pounding me on the desk. I begged him to go faster, FASTER! My hand was rubbing furiously and I could feel his dick still getting even harder with each thrust. I climaxed so hard I had to bite his shirt (and some of his chest) to keep from screaming.
I pushed him backward into my chair, and licked my juices off of his dick. I sucked and slurped on that cock until he couldn't take it any more. He shot all over my face and in my mouth as I held out my tongue, begging for more.

Porn Star for Governor of California

Porn star Mary Carey's campaign slogan is "Finally, a politician you want to be screwed by." She was unable to beat Arnold Schwarzenegger the last time around, but now she's back with bigger, 36-D boobs, a slimmer figure and some brown low-lights in her blonde hair (because she says brunettes are taken more seriously). She has starred in such classics as "Boobsville Sorority Girls" and "Cheerleader School," but says she plans to put her film career on hold if she is elected. Her political platform includes getting the FBI guys to leave porn stars alone. I think this is an admirable goal. What did porn stars ever do to the FBI, anyway? They provide entertainment that is very much in demand. Porn may still be taboo in polite circles, but everybody knows that the ones who protest the loudest and try the hardest to put more and more restrictions on porn, are the ones sittin' at home spankin' their dicks every night while they watch people such as Ms. Carey. Good luck Ms. Carey, maybe the porn stars of the world will finally have a voice in the world of politics!

All nude airlines the wave of the future?

Amidst all of the new airport security measures, one airline decided to give naked passengers a fast-track through security. Ryanair, a European budget airline, allowed passengers in the buff to breeze through security without so much as a body cavity search. In fact, it was a race to strip down to their birthday suits because the first ones through security and onto the plane were allowed to pick where they would like to sit. I wonder how many of them decided to join the mile high club that day while they were at it? Check out the pics here!